How To Get My Ex back

February 3, 2010 - 8:48 pm No Comments

I am convinced more than ever that success and fulfillment in life are in direct proportion to the investment we make in our relationships.

Joyce, a 37 year old systems analyst came to my office and asked; “How can I get my ex back?” I gave the answer with a question so I could probe the motives of couples who have broken up.

I asked her; if someone spent the whole day with you, how would they feel at the end of the day–filled up or sucked dry? I wanted Joyce to see herself in the mirror and know if she was the kind of person who searched for ways to give hope and encouragement instead of extracting them for the necessities in her daily life.

Many people who want their ex back never realize how much they drain from their partner emotionally. The good news is that no one needs to live a minute longer extracting life out of people.

We can all increase our building and lifting up habits and thereby make it possible for our partners to like themselves better when they are with us.

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